Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Sunday, February 22, 2009
It sadden me..
It sadden to know that he mentioned that :"ppl are selfish with their time unless they are interested or have something to gain out of it.." I guess it's just me..
Saturday, February 21, 2009
Not being a good friend..
There are times when one would think you are not a good friend to ppl around you, especially those who you hail as best friend. But what if a good friend said to you hat you have not done enough as a friend. How would you feel, when you have actually done the best that you can.
I guess I am not the a person who like to 'wayang' and say but don't mean what I say. For me, once you say it you must actually do it. Hence for me, I am really careful when making promises, people who know me well enough will know this. It is really upsetting when one of your good friend said that you are not giving your all as compared to him. I know I am not, but there's other things in life I need to deal with like my personal life, school, family and many other issues that pop up in life.
I apologize for not meeting your expectation as a good friend. Hence, I have doubts about picking up your call and let alone chilling out with you. I didn't know being friends can be so stressful too. I thought good friends would just make one feel better about themselves rather than bad about oneself. I really do not know how this friendship more than a decade will continue on or just end as we remain un-contactable to each other. I am really feel disheartened when those words came out of your mouth.. I know you will never get over the traumatic event of losing a love one, I can never understand but just hope that while you are trying to minimize or get over that you can try not to hurt people around you. It is not that people around don't care for you, it is just that they don't really know how to do so when you are reacting in this way. Hope that you will not take friendship as an instrument of measuring who have done enough and who have not. Friendship come naturally, everyone has its subjective aspect of what friendship mean to them, hope you really understand.
I guess I am not the a person who like to 'wayang' and say but don't mean what I say. For me, once you say it you must actually do it. Hence for me, I am really careful when making promises, people who know me well enough will know this. It is really upsetting when one of your good friend said that you are not giving your all as compared to him. I know I am not, but there's other things in life I need to deal with like my personal life, school, family and many other issues that pop up in life.
I apologize for not meeting your expectation as a good friend. Hence, I have doubts about picking up your call and let alone chilling out with you. I didn't know being friends can be so stressful too. I thought good friends would just make one feel better about themselves rather than bad about oneself. I really do not know how this friendship more than a decade will continue on or just end as we remain un-contactable to each other. I am really feel disheartened when those words came out of your mouth.. I know you will never get over the traumatic event of losing a love one, I can never understand but just hope that while you are trying to minimize or get over that you can try not to hurt people around you. It is not that people around don't care for you, it is just that they don't really know how to do so when you are reacting in this way. Hope that you will not take friendship as an instrument of measuring who have done enough and who have not. Friendship come naturally, everyone has its subjective aspect of what friendship mean to them, hope you really understand.
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Saturday, February 14, 2009
Saturday, February 7, 2009
My best friend's brother
Botak bro Zi Yu, has just pass on at approximately 8pm @ NUH.. His family and many of his friends was there..
His bro, Zi Yu has let a great 23 years of his life with many good friends and family by his side.. He is the brother of one of my best buddy, hence is like my own brother too.. Although I was really sad to see him go, but I am even more sad to see him suffer..
May he leave this world in peace.
His bro, Zi Yu has let a great 23 years of his life with many good friends and family by his side.. He is the brother of one of my best buddy, hence is like my own brother too.. Although I was really sad to see him go, but I am even more sad to see him suffer..
May he leave this world in peace.
Tuesday, February 3, 2009
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